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Raising Good Humans

Raising Good Humans

by Hunter Clarke-Fields MSAE

A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids

2023
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Mindfulness, a state of being present with kindness and curiosity, is more than just a calming exercise; it's a radical shift in how individuals can interact with their thoughts and emotions. Contrary to misconceptions of meditation as a mystical, transcendent state, mindfulness is about consciously tuning into the present moment—whether it involves the breath or the chaotic thoughts that flood the mind. This new mental model contradicts the myth that stillness requires absence of thought. Instead, mindfulness is about continuously returning to the present moment, which serves as an anchor amidst the mental storms. The practice is a simple yet profound gym session for the mind, transforming reactivity into calm responsiveness. Empirical research shows that engaging in mindfulness meditation leads to tangible changes in brain structure, enhancing regions associated with awareness and empathy while weakening those connected to the fight-or-flight response.

Hunter Clarke-Fields MSAE, Raising Good Humans