Power is not ending, nor are many of its manifestations new. To effectively lead in a world that has not changed as much as many think or expect, people need to understand the basic principles—the rules—of power.

Our attention is a kind of light, one that clarifies the world and makes it visible to us.

The path forward is only revealed when we begin walking.

Fortunately, most children learn to walk before they can be told how to by their parents.

Open-minded people can take in the thoughts of others without losing their ability to think well—they can hold two or more conflicting concepts in their mind and go back and forth between them to assess their relative merits.

Boundaries help us to know just where someone’s control begins and ends.

Marriage is knowing she likes to get to the airport early. Marriage is taking the time to make the bed even though you know that if you didn’t do it she probably would.

Analyses of others are actually expressions of our own needs and values.

Learn to listen and follow your heart. You will never be able to escape from your heart, so it's better to listen to what it has to say.

THE LAW OF THE PICTURE - One example is worth a thousand pictures