The Role of Conflict in Relationships

Richo emphasizes that conflict is a natural and essential phase in building a lasting relationship. He argues that without conflict, partners might lose their individuality and become overly dependent on each other. Conflict helps transition from romantic projection to mature self-affirmation. Richo states, 'We need conflict in order to evolve from romantic projection to mature self-affirmation.' This phase often brings up unresolved issues from our past, especially those related to our parents, which we then project onto our partners. This reenactment allows individuals to confront and process these old wounds, ultimately leading to personal growth and a deeper, more authentic connection with their partner.