Recognize and Respect Boundaries

June Eding uses the metaphor of the porcupine to emphasize the importance of understanding and respecting personal boundaries. Porcupines raise their quills when threatened, similar to how humans use defensive mechanisms when their boundaries are encroached upon. Respecting these boundaries is fundamental in maintaining harmonious relationships. As Eding explains, 'Because a porcupine often attacks out of fear, respecting his boundaries will keep him from lashing out.' By recognizing and respecting these signs of discomfort, we can prevent conflicts before they escalate.