Intentional Discipline

The book emphasizes the concept of intentional discipline, which focuses on guiding children's behavior while nurturing their emotional development. Instead of reacting on autopilot, parents should understand their child's emotions and developmental stage. For example, rather than immediately punishing a child for hitting, parents should first understand the underlying emotions. Siegel writes, 'What’s needed is a clear understanding of what you actually want to accomplish when your child misbehaves.' This approach helps teach constructive lessons and fosters long-term emotional growth.