Connect Before You Redirect

Understanding the differences between the left and right sides of the brain can significantly impact how we respond to emotional situations with our children. Tina's son's outburst serves as a prime example where emotions (right-brain) were overwhelming logic (left-brain). The authors emphasize that a logical, left-brain response in such cases would be counterproductive. Instead, using the 'connect-and-redirect' technique by acknowledging and addressing the emotional needs first can help calm the child. Tina's approach of pulling her son close, using soothing nonverbal signals, and empathizing with his feelings showcases this method effectively. 'By connecting with him, right brain to right brain, she was able to communicate that she was tuned in to how he was feeling.'